| Name at birth: | Shelly Patricia Stokoe |
| Date of birth: | March 3, 1967 |
| Place of birth: | Henderson Hospital, Hamilton |
| Date of death: | November 6, 2014 |
| Place of death: | Dunnville War Memorial Hospital |
| Resting place: | Dunnville |
| Submitted by: | Arlene McIlravey |
Do not stand by my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints in the snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn’s rain
When you awaken in the mornings hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there. I did not die.