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“M L Myers” (nvqmrn54@lvcm.com)
22 June, 2002
HI DADDY,
WELL, I HAVE GOOD NEWS… YOUR SON IS WORKING FOR THE FIRST TIME… KATHY AND LINDY HIRED HIM AND HE IS DOING VERY WELL… I AM SO PROUD OF HIM…WE ARE ALONE AGAIN DADDY, AND I GUESS I AM MEANT TO BE ALONE FOR THE REMAINDER OF MY LIFE… I SURE DO MISS YOUR ARMS AROUND ME… HOPE YOU ARE OK, AND GOD HAS YOU DOING GOOD THINGS…WE LOVE AND MISS YOU… DON’T WORRY, WE ARE FINE… CHRIS AND I STICK TOGETHER, AND HE TAKES VERY GOOD CARE OF ME… LOVE, YOUR WIFE AND SON
07 April, 2002
Hi Daddy,
Well things are finally getting a little better for chris and me…. I had a pretty hard time after my surgery, but God took good care of me as he always does and now I am ok……. We miss you and love you……. It is hard for me being alone, but I am learning to let God run my life as I have managed to screw it up so often. I am in love with someone who doesn’t want me, but I will let God decide if we should be together. He helped me thru the worst time of my life daddy, and he is a good person but he doesn’t know it. I love and miss you, but am carrying on with my life as you would have wanted me to. Chris has been a great support to me, and you would be so proud of him. Love, Your best friend and wife.
“MLM” (nvqmrn54@lvcm.com)
17 December, 2001
Dear Daddy,
Well, things aren’t going so good down here. I have been very ill, but God seems to have spared me this time. Chris is not ready to lose his mom just yet, so I am glad. I think of you daily, never do I forget the love and friendship we had. I miss you so much…… I am trying to be a good person, but I am not very tolerant these days. Merry Christmas daddy, from me, Chris, and Cody…….love you always……….Your wife………
14 July, 2001
Dear Daddy,
Well, it seems like it was only yesterday you were here with us. As you know, watching us in heaven, that the last 4 years have been like living in hell. Your son has stood by me, even though I was not really with it for many of the 4 years, he never gave up on me. We have rid ourselves of the devil, although he took us for everything we had, we still have our love for each other. I am writing to tell you that Chris and I have finally been given a special gift from God… Somehow I suspect you had something to do with this… We have met a man that wants to love and care for us, not con us and take our possessions. He is wonderful, kind, loving, funny, and he pays so much attention to your son… Chris is not very open, but he interacts better now than I have seen him over the last 4 years. Mike has taken us into his heart, and he will never hurt us. I am finally happy again daddy, the first time since your death that I can honestly say I am totally happy, content, and very much in love with this man. I know this is what you wanted for me, and this time it is real as our new found love was a precious and unexpected gift from God. I have long conversations with God, and sometimes over the past years, have thought God gave up on me, but he never did. So daddy, you can now rest in peace, not to worry anymore about your wife and son being mentally abused and conned by a bad person who God will deal with in his own time and way. If you happen to see God, thank him for me… Your loving wife and friend, Mary Lou..
09 June, 2001
DEAR DAVID,
WELL, I SURE DID MAKE A MESS OF THINGS THESE LAST 4 YEARS. YOUR DEATH HAS NOT BEEN EASY TO DEAL WITH. HOWEVER, YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF YOUR SON… HE TAKES GOOD CARE OF ME… I HAVE MADE HORRIBLE DECISIONS AND MISTAKES, BUT, AS CHRIS SAYS, WE HAVE EACH OTHER AND WE WILL SURVIVE… PLEASE FORGIVE ME DADDY FOR THE WAY EVERYTHING HAS TURNED OUT… I DIDN’T SEE THE CON COMING, AND BEING THE TRUSTING PERSON I AM, I DIDN’T SEE IT UNTIL THE BITTER END. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU… YOUR WIFE AND SON AND CODY…
06 March, 2001
HI DADDY,
IT HAS BEEN 4 LONG YEARS, AND I HAVE MADE HUGE MISTAKES AND ERRORS SINCE LOSING YOU. I HOPE SOMEDAY I CAN FORGIVE MYSELF, BUT UNTIL THEN, I CONTINUE TO LOVE AND NURTURE YOUR ONLY SON. WE MISS YOU. LOVE, MOM AND CHRIS
(MHackbert@aol.com)
21 June, 1998
Happy Father’s Day Daddy, we miss you. You are always in our hearts and thoughts.
Love,
Christopher and Mom
Mary Lou Hackbert
June 22, 1997
Mary Lou